Flipping the bird to societal relational scripts

According to a new study co-conducted by the dating app Feeld and sex educator Ruby Rare, younger generations are increasingly rejecting societal norms around relationships and intimacy. Relationship anarchy, a philosophical approach that aims to avoid hierarchies and other traditional conventions that have cemented themselves to mainstream relational ethics, is on the rise among millennials and Gen […]

Is kinky sex better sex?

An Italian study just published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reports that 303 participants in BDSM “play parties” (average age 36.4) report significantly higher levels of sexual satisfaction than general population controls (average age 31.0): more sex-positive attitudes, better communication skills, and less reliance on orgasm. Is this because only people with healthy sexual relationships engage […]

Lack of partnered sex does not cause more masturbation

A longitudinal study of 2,562 Norwegian adults surveyed in their early 20s, late 20s, and early 40s, shows, contrary to widespread assumptions, that having partnered sex more often does not lead to less masturbation. Indeed, the women who had more partnered sex also masturbated more, and women masturbated more in their late 20s to early […]

“Our Pleasure is Liberation” – An Analysis of Black Female Sexual Pleasure

In this small but mighty qualitative study of black women’s experiences of sexual pleasure from the Journal of Sex Research, scholars analyze sexual testimonies around the themes of emotional intimacy, out-of-the-ordinary experiences, physical intimacy, intentionality, open communication, and mindful presence. The article effectively contextualizes the research subjects’ – 25 American black women from the South […]